Teyonas with a short sigh

I recently received a reply to one of my posts from Tey.

For whatever reason, rather than pend or proceed with publishing it, WordPress saw fit to place it in a spam folder, so I am just now noticing it.

While I do hate censorship, I elected not to publish it for two simple reasons.  One, I see no reason to subject any readers of this blog to ongoing drama.  Two, its my backyard, ergo, my rules.

If you want to get your point across and have your version of the facts published dear, WordPress is free.  Create an account and blog away.

I will say this…

It takes two to tango.  There’s also two sides to a divorce.  I was not without fault.  I also was not the only one with fault.  Its over.  Let it go.

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Changes

You know how it goes if you’ve ever tried to maintain a blog.

One change comes along, and you mean to make a note of it.  Then another change or update, so you figure, I’ll combine them.  Then a third event occurs, and next thing you know…its best just to make one entry and title it “Changes”.

First things first.  Teyonas.  Teyonas and I have split up, for good.  In truth, it feels as if we did months ago, but I’m not going to use this forum to discuss our relationship, or its end.  Just know that we are no longer a couple.

Valerie.  My new partner and soon to be wife.  In truth, it feels as if she has been for several months.  More to come on this topic in the near future, but since this is merely to update recent “changes”, know that I am in heaven.

Jaycie.  My former slave overseer, now a full Brat.  Congratulations Jay, and welcome to the Family.  I love you!  This sweet girl and I met approximately a year and a half ago and have always felt a special friendship.  I cannot say how happy I am to have her as a Brat.

Joni.  On trial to be a Brat.  Another of my slaves that has been with me for a long time.  Joni’s devotion to me has never wavered.  I am quite confident her trial to be a Brat is a mere formality.

Seems like I am forgetting something….

Oh yes!  I have also given myself to a Mistress.  I intend to dedicate a post solely to her in the near future as well.  Suffice to say she has spent the last year slowly getting under my skin and inside my head and I love and adore her with all my heart.

That’s it.  Everyone feel up to date now?  Good.  Ciao!

Life is a Highway…

As always, my usual apologies for such a delay in posts.  Normally RL intervenes and causes me several distractions, but lately it seems my distractions to posting have been SL related.

Today is July 14.  The one year anniversary of Tey and I’s wedding.  Let me address that first.  Happy Anniversary Love!!!!  The past year has been INCREDIBLE!  I would so do it again, and as you know, not change a damn thing.  You are everything.  My sub, my wife, my partner, my friend, my legacy.  I love you!

As some of you know, I enjoy Second Life as it allows me, as it should all of us, the opportunity to do things I cannot do in RL.  Those of you that know me real well know I love to dance.  Those that know me even moreso, know my favorite dance is the salsa.  I could salsa all night long if my partner is willing.  Why?  Its simple.  In RL I have four, sometimes five or six left feet when it comes to dancing.  At least when it comes to dancing a salsa.  I know, the image is shattered.  Goddess trips over herself on a dance floor.  *Sigh*  Its just one of those things I never conquered.

Another thing I could do, but sadly do not get to for various reasons, is bike EVERYwhere.  If I could, I would ride a motorcycle all over God’s green earth.  I’d ride it to where ever I might work.  I’d ride it to the school to get the kids.  I’d ride it to the grocery store.  I’d ride all across this great land.  Life is a highway after all.

As an anniversary gift, Tey got me the loveliest motorcycle.

Speeding Across the Mojave

I had already found the nicest sim for bike riding.  In fact, bikes are the only thing allowed.  Car riding is not only frowned upon, its an insta-ban if caught.  Even people walking are made fun of.  Just go to search and search for “Route 66”.  The SLURL is http://slurl.com/secondlife/Route%2066/82/223/31 .  This will take you to one of a six sim string designed for bike riding.

This morning, while awaiting my Love, I accomplished another RL goal in SL, as you can see from the above photo.  I crossed the Mojave.  Granted, a bit simpler in SL, but no less thrilling for me.  Thank you Love.

Life with you is as the title to this blog states, a highway.  Of course, with Tey, the highway needs to be one with no posted speed limit.  Those of you blessed enough to know and see Tey as I do know exactly what I mean.

But back to Route 66.  Of course, no trip through the Mojave is complete without stopping to admire the views of Death Valley.  In this case, Route 66’s Death Valley has a slow climb up a mountain to an observation deck.  As Death Valley is the lowest place in North America, I’m not sure how realistic the climb up a mountainside is, as well as the driving under a waterfall to get there, but this is SL.  And I assure you, the view is very beautiful.  I suggest playing with the sunset and sunrise environment settings if you take this trip.

A dead end in Death Valley. How appropriate.

Well, that’s my post.  An update on Tey and I, as well as a sim referral.  I promise to try and be less distracted, but most of you know how Second Life can be.

A constant highway.  Safe riding!

Speed Limit 75??? Wimps....

Happiness

First and foremost, my apologies for not blogging in such a while and many kisses to those of you that continue to check this medium daily and keep my blog numbers high.

I can happily report to my daily readers that I am at the pinnacle of my happiness with the Second Life experience.  I say that, because I truly cannot imagine being any happier. 

I am surrounded by good close friends.  At any given time, there are perhaps 50-75 people on my friends list online.  Granted, the IMs get a bit hectic at times, but who ever died wishing they’d had the opportunity to talk to or have *less* friends?

I now have a home where my Family and loved ones can gather, visit, laugh, play, love, and most importantly, live.  My Family continues to grow, not so much by my hand these days, but by the prosperity and development of my Brats and those that have submitted to them.  If you have not yet visited our new home and wish to do so, merely search places for Yasminia.

From your entry at the base of our light house, you’ll first come to the Slave Lounge.  This lounge is hosted by Valerie, one of my slaves.  Feel free to use her or any other of my slaves working or present in the lounge, or, if you are a Domme and exploring with your own slave, feel free to leave her here to relax while you visit.  Do remember to stop back by as you leave, Valerie is quite adept at cleaning the beach sand from a visitor’s boots.

As you exit the lounge, you’ll find yourself on East Beach.  If you’re an RLV/relay user, do be aware that there are a few traps on this beach, some subtle, some obvious, some hidden.  Additionally, some of these traps have timers as low as thirty seconds, some require that you struggle out on your own, and some require that you obtain the assistance of a bystander.  Good luck on that last one.  The strip button does so closely resemble the release button these days.

As you leave East Beach, I encourage you to walk up the south side of the island.  As you crest the hill toward the drop off of our stream, you should look down and follow the waterfall.  You’ll observe a small beach surounded by two waterfalls.  This romantic hideaway is called Tey’s Beach, after my loving bride, Teyonas.  But do not let that discourage you from finding a teleporter and entering the beach for yourself.  Do remember to take a loved one, for optimum effect.  I mention a teleporter as a reminder that our sim is a no-fly zone, without the proper permit of course.

If you complete your walk up the hill, you’ll come to the front of our home, or as some refer to it, our mansion.  This humble abode was at one time only two stories, but as we were moving onto the island, Yar and our groundskeeper, Tania Owatatsumi, asked me to rez several copies of this home.  They then picked apart enough material to add a third floor.  As such, we now have the lovely home we do and every Brat in my Family has their own room.  This alone brings tears to my eyes when I think of it.  How many Dommes, with a Family as large as mine, can boast that they all live under one roof?

From the front of our home, one can then explore around the front of the house as well as the hillside and beach on the north side to discover a few more toys.  If you are into pure relaxation or some yoga, I would suggest you wander out onto the northeast ridge and look for a small yoga mat.  There is also a meditation ball on the mountainside in the southwest corner of the island.

Now, I want to back up a bit and discuss Tania Owatatsumi.  While a very generous member of my Family presented me with Yasminia as a gift, as noted in a prior blog, Tania took time out of her SL experience for a little over a week to edit, terraform, renovate, and build Yasminia as it stands today.  In return, she asked me to grant her 100 dates.  I cannot express how touching and humbling it is to me for someone to give me so much and all they ask for in return is my time and attention.  If you’re reading this Tania, I love you.  You are more precious to me than words can describe.

It is said that home is where the heart is.  If there is anyone in Second Life that feels the need to locate my heart, it is here, in Yasminia.  But be forewarned, it is surrounded by some very serious women.  You’ll recognize them, for they’ll be Brats, GrandBrats, Slaves, and friends.

Do come visit.  The welcome mat is officially out.

Catching up…and branding

Let me apologize to my regular readers for not posting in a few days.  It is often said that RL is the cruelest Mistress of all and believe me, do not take that saying for granted.  She is an extremely demanding and fickle Miss.

Its that time of year when the school age tykes we love and adore get granted a reprieve from the correctional institutions they attend by day, i.e., Spring Break.  So, even while on SL, I have been busy making plans for where my RL family is headed that week. 

Additionally, as some of you know, I have two close relatives feeling quite ill.  One was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, stage four.  I just want to say thank you to those that have expressed kind words and thoughts.

Now, onto SL items.  Some of you may have seen new marks on some of my Family as of late.  Yar recently completed a brand for me to apply to my girls.  You may note this new mark on some of their thighs, or if you get really lucky, their sexy backsides.  The brand is also our new corporate logo, a Y with the lines of a key on the bottom leg.  The design itself was created by my lovely bride, Tey.  As a side note, at what point does the relationship cool enough that one can stop referring to their partner as their bride?  Never, I hope!

Now, of course, branding is a permanent modification to one’s body, so its not for everyone.  Allow me to thank those of my Family members that were brave enough and devoted enough to accept my brand, or are accepting it in the near future.  I’m very proud of you.

Of course, there are some of my Family members that elected not to to be branded due to a limit for body modification.  To you I say I am even more proud.  A branding violates one of your fundamental limits, and you were brave enough to tell me such, and refuse the brand.  It is often said that a sub cannot develop if she cannot trust her Domme.  I say the inverse is also true.

To all of my Family, brand or not, I love you all and at the end of the day, it matters not to me so much what is branded on your skin as what is etched on your heart.

See you in-world!  *kiss*

Time Flies When You’re Having Fun

Those of you that know me know I could write for 40 days and 40 nights about my partner, Tey.

I’m not going to ramble on and get emotional about what Tey has done for me and what she means to my SL experience, but merely wanted to make a short post commemorating a milestone.

One year ago today, I asked Tey to be my submissive.  Obviously, she accepted.  For those that have had such unions whether it be with a sub, Domme or partner, you know just how long a year in SL can be.  Its like 14 dog years, give or take.

Thank you Tey, not just today, but each and every day, for the love, trust and devotion you give me.  You humble me Love.

I love you, and I would gladly do it all over again.  Here’s to another year.

Teyonas

Yasmin’s Love.  Yasmin’s Legacy.  My darling bride.

The first time I met, rather interacted, with Tey, it was in old Stonehaven.  She was almost done with a lengthy timer set by someone else.  I dropped in out of nowhere, saw that her keys were available, added three hours to every timer, flew off.  Never said a word to her, she never said a word to me.

While not talking to my victim was very unusual for me, it was not so for Tey, as I would discover.  Tey had a habit of standing by the entrance to the cage room and being afk.  Many a time I would lock her, block her from environment, set timers and leave her keys.  Many a time she would come back from afk just as I finished.  One day I finally sent her an IM and asked if it was okay to lock her like I did.  After what seemed like an eternity, Tey replied that it was fine with her.  I later found out that she even argued with someone that once tried to unlock her after I had locked her up.

As time went on, I eventually collared Tey.  In fact, our one year anniversary is just a few days away.  By the time I collared her, we had evolved to the point that I could, if lucky, sometimes get two, maybe three sentences out of Tey in a fifteen minute period.  A lot of times, during a scene, Tey would freeze up, or simply log off.  Many would develop quite a complex with this type of behavior, but something told me there was something else at work.

Finally, one day, during a nice arousing scene, Tey froze on me.  Just stopped talking, for about fifteen minutes.  Finally, she apologized and began talking again.  I had had enough at this point, so I bluntly asked her what was wrong.  It was then that Tey explained the reason behind her quiet and shy nature.  In RL, she suffers from Asperger’s Syndrome.

I was stunned.  Not by her admission, but by the fact that she was in a cyber environment at all.  How hard must it have been for her to even go thru being collared by me, much less scene and play with myself as well as her sisters.

By this time, I also owned a lovely girl named DiaperedPet Jewell.  Pet offered to begin meeting with Tey and going thru some roleplay scenarios, to help make her more comfortable during scenes.  I know when Pet left my Family shortly after that, she was still a tad frustrated with Tey, but the work she began went on, and today Tey is quite comfortable in just about any setting within SL.  In fact, Tey tells me she has even fired her therapist in RL as the relationships she has developed in SL give her more therapy.  Pet was very helpful, and I can never thank her enough.

Soon after Pet left the Family, I split with my partner at the time, Shibari Hobble.  Soon after that split, Tey approached me and let me know that if I ever took another partner, she would like it to be her.  I was touched.  In just seven months, Tey had progressed from one that could barely speak to me, to now proposing to me.  In fairness to myself and Shi, as well as Tey, I told Tey it was much too soon.  She accepted this, quite gracefully.

Over the following weeks, I made it a point to get even closer to Tey, and began to see her for the loving supportive sweet soul she is.  Soon, I let her know that the answer to her proposal was yes.  On July 14, we were married.  In my prior partnerships, I had never gone thru the actual marriage ritual in SL.  I recommend it to anyone considering partnering.  For some reason, it just seems to solidify the union.

Today, my partnership with Tey is certainly the strongest relationship I have in SL.  In fact, it ranks very high with my RL relationships as well.  Even I cannot say how long my time in this medium will last, but I am sure my friendship with Tey will far surpass it.  Tey is one of those people that you want to keep in touch with.  Find out who they married, what did they name their babies, what other tribulations do they have, etc.

I gave Teyonas the title of Yasmin’s Legacy because if my time were to end now, and my days in SL were to draw to a close, I would want people to remember me by looking at Tey.  She is my legacy to SL.  I do not take credit for changing her life for the better.  I do not pretend to think I have cured her AS.  I do however think I have assisted her in finding a path to an easier way of communicating with those she loves, here and in RL.  Tey tells me she has even begun speaking up at her place of employment, and been rewarded by being assigned to train new employees.

How incredibly difficult that must be for her at times, and how incredibly brave she must be for persevering.

You are my Legacy Love.  You complete me.  I love you.

But you are still an imp.  ; P