Generosity

Webster’s defines generosity as “readiness or liberality in giving.”  I like to think that I have been *somewhat* generous during my tenure in SL.  I like to further think that its a character trait brought over from RL.  I’ve ran into new avatars and given my time to help them get acclimated to SL.  In some instances, I even made monetary contributions to help them better outfit their avatar.  Why heck, I’m not even above giving a Linden or two when I blow through a sim that impresses me.  I like to think I give my L, and my time, as Webster says *readily* and with *liberality*.

However.  You could just “feel” that however couldn’t you?  However, I am constantly humbled by members of my Family.  Every day, my girls, be it Brats, slaves, piggies, grandbrats, you name it, give their money, their efforts, sometimes even collective efforts, and their time, the most precious commodity, to enrich the SL experience for those moving in and out of their lives.  They give these items to others within SL, whether it be new avatars in-world, or a friend that has been here for some time.  Additionally, every day, they give these gifts to me, whether directly or indirectly.  A dear friend of mine has recently said that its not the Domme that makes the sub, but rather its the sub that makes the Domme.  This is so true.  My girls make me.  They mold me.  They breathe life into me.  They complete me.  Plain and simple.

A few people know how much I adore my privacy, even in-world.  I love the ability to just go to a place where you know you are supreme and nobody can bother you.  The easiest way to do this of course is to have your own sim.  A place to call “home”.

Recently, while away from SL for a spring break vacation with my RL family, one of my girls chose to surprise me.  I should say all of my girls as this surprise was miraculously kept a secret from me prior to my departure.  Whoever says a secret cannot be shared in SL has not met my Family.

Now, I won’t mention this Family member by name, as that is not important and she knows who she is, but upon my return to SL following my vacation, lo and behold, I now own a sim.  Paid for, signed, sealed and delivered.  Now mind you, this is deeper than a monetary gift to me.  This girl has now allowed me the ability to have the peace I want in SL, *when* I want it.  On my terms.  Additionally, we now have a place that the Family can gather as a whole, and get even closer than we already were.  Believe me, no easy task when your Family juggles a dozen time zones and everyone lives in a different sim.

So, to the girl that gave me this cherished gift, I cover you in kisses and adore you as I always have.  I love you.  To the rest of my girls, who give me precious gifts and generosity day in and day out, I cannot tell you how thrilled I am with our new home and the prospect of all of us being together, without the prior drama; playing, loving, laughing and most importantly, living, as a Family should.

God bless you all.

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Catching up…and branding

Let me apologize to my regular readers for not posting in a few days.  It is often said that RL is the cruelest Mistress of all and believe me, do not take that saying for granted.  She is an extremely demanding and fickle Miss.

Its that time of year when the school age tykes we love and adore get granted a reprieve from the correctional institutions they attend by day, i.e., Spring Break.  So, even while on SL, I have been busy making plans for where my RL family is headed that week. 

Additionally, as some of you know, I have two close relatives feeling quite ill.  One was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, stage four.  I just want to say thank you to those that have expressed kind words and thoughts.

Now, onto SL items.  Some of you may have seen new marks on some of my Family as of late.  Yar recently completed a brand for me to apply to my girls.  You may note this new mark on some of their thighs, or if you get really lucky, their sexy backsides.  The brand is also our new corporate logo, a Y with the lines of a key on the bottom leg.  The design itself was created by my lovely bride, Tey.  As a side note, at what point does the relationship cool enough that one can stop referring to their partner as their bride?  Never, I hope!

Now, of course, branding is a permanent modification to one’s body, so its not for everyone.  Allow me to thank those of my Family members that were brave enough and devoted enough to accept my brand, or are accepting it in the near future.  I’m very proud of you.

Of course, there are some of my Family members that elected not to to be branded due to a limit for body modification.  To you I say I am even more proud.  A branding violates one of your fundamental limits, and you were brave enough to tell me such, and refuse the brand.  It is often said that a sub cannot develop if she cannot trust her Domme.  I say the inverse is also true.

To all of my Family, brand or not, I love you all and at the end of the day, it matters not to me so much what is branded on your skin as what is etched on your heart.

See you in-world!  *kiss*

And the winner is….

First, let me apologize for not blogging in the last several days.  There are some serious issues involving the health of a few close relatives and I have been, when not in-world, *slightly* distracted.  I also have my Family’s Spring Break vacation to plan for, so my mind has been more or less focused elsewhere.

Let me take this time to thank everyone that took the time to submit an entry into my contest, “My Mistress/Domme is the best because…”  After much deliberation, the contest came down to four entries that rose above.

For “My Mistress/Domme is the best because…” the nominees are Kat5 Catteneo, JenniferGail Landar, DiaperedPet Jewell, and Ophelia Hax.

Let me just say that this decision was not easy.  I even consulted several close Family members as to their opinions.  All four of these finalists wrote honest, genuine, loving essays about why they felt their Mistresses were the best.  Since two of these entrants share a Mistress, I would have to say that three of SL’s top Dominants were represented and each of them should be very proud of their girls.  As I know all three, I am going to take the liberty of speaking for them and say they are VERY proud of these ladies.

Rather than spoil the contest by declaring the winner here and now, I submit for my readers’ pleasure, the winning entry.

My Mistress is the best because…

She’s a Legend!!  A Legend  built on love and compassion for others.  The ability & gift to give people what they truly want, without them ever consciously asking for it.  To look down deep into your very soul with passion and understanding, and when She finds what She’s looking for, to wield it, to shape and control you with her will.  She commands respect with just her presence alone, She has a genuine Aura that draws you to her and intoxicates your senses into submission and awe.  Obsession should always feel this good!!  She knows what you have done, both good and naughty before you even think of telling her, She’s just everywhere.

Some of the most inluential people in SL call her Mistress or Miss, but more importantly they call her friend.  She has the ability to get into your head and stay there, creative with discipline; cruel, harsh, evil and even light, administered with gracious love.  A task or a session is always ended with a “Thank You” from her, and that “Thank You” alone translates into a feeling of pure pleasure and bliss, and pride.  Knowing you made Her smile, it’s the best.  She is a legend, i often hear stories about her when i meet people, and it makes me very proud and reminds me who i represent.

When you love you should not say “Mistress is in my heart”, but rather “i am in the heart of Mistress” and think not you can direct the course of love, for this love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

A Legend is also represented by her girls, both past & present, my Mistress has had the creme de le creme of girls submit to her, love and embrace her, always remembering the influence she had on them.  She does truly know the ebb of your tide, as well as the flood.

You seek her not with hours to kill, but hours to live.

My Mistress’ soul unfolds itself like a Lotus of countless petals, embracing you in her warmth, glow and Aura.

my Mistress is the best because she truly cares, she is a legend, and not just to me, but many, touching everyone she comes in contact with, a legend of love, my Mistress is, Mistress Idoru Ryba.

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For those of you following my blog, you know “pet” is DiaperedPet Jewell, or DP.  Congratulations Pet, your essay is beautifully done, as is everything you do.

As a footnote, I once had the pleasure of owning Pet before Idoru *makes mental note to stop introducing her girls to Idoru* and there are few submissives quite like Pet.  She is genuine in the adoration she gives, not only to her Owner, but to her friends.  I am honored to have Pet on my friends list, and I know Idoru is blessed to own her.